You know those days when everything just falls into place and it's just a great day. Not to say everything is perfect, that only happens in the movies. Today (1/18/12) was a good day. The kids and I had the chance to take my wife to work this morning, while this rarely happens, it's always a welcome start to the day. We all get to see Philly for a little longer than normal and it gets Logan, Nyah and I out the door. I enjoy the time as we get to chat as a family for a few minutes. Okay so really Philly and I get to chat while Logan tries to communicate with Nyah in the back seat, always entertaining. The kids and I planned on going to the aquarium today, but plans change. If I've learned one thing so far as a parent, it is not to force things. I just need to go with the flow and check in with the kids as we roll through the day. Today was no different. We parked in between the aquarium and the giant REI store in downtown Denver. We headed to REI for a new top to Logan's water bottle (the last one got melted in our old dishwasher, not fun) and to look for a new hat for Nyah (no luck, the girl hates hats). Logan loves to walk on the old rail road tracks that are not used this time of year. I'm not sure what it is with boys and trains but all little boys seem to have that in common. The REI flagship store happens to have a play area on the third floor, right next to were the kids hats are, that is where we stayed for a long time. It's always interesting to meet new parents and kids and talk to complete strangers who are connected purely on the basis of being a fellow parent. It's refreshing since I have been slow to venture out with two kids at the same time. I think I am finally over my fear of how to get out with Logan and Nyah even on a windy brisk day. Granted I still pack like I'm going to be gone for a week, but I would rather have food, clothes and toys for any situation. I have been saved by this tactic many a time. From blow outs and full outfit changes to an unexpected requests for 4 packets of applesauce in a row, I am glad I pack heavy. (As a side note I'm still searching for a daddy/diaper back that can handle my preparedness or over preparedness level. I have a new one in my sights but it is a little pricey as it is not a diaper bag but a piece of tactical gear.) Anyway back to the good day. After our play time we roamed the store and picked up a few things we needed. We then walked back to our truck and met up with Philly for lunch.
Meeting my wife for lunch since she returned from maternity leave has been a daily occurrence. I get the kids packed up and we drive to her office which is a short trip from our house. Then we get to eat lunch together and talk while Philly feeds Nyah. I feel very lucky that we live so close to her office. We feel strongly about breastfeeding for as long as possible and I feel this has also helped keep our family tight. With the hustle and bustle of daily life it is hard to keep the important things in perspective. After lunch the kids and I bid a fond farewell to Philly and head home. On this particular day, I have to change plans on the fly again. Both kids pass out within minutes of driving towards home. So what does a daddy do when the kids pass out in the truck? Starbucks! That's right, I went to my local drive-thru Starbucks and recharged my batteries. After a few hours driving up and down local roads and a little trip into the hills Logan woke up followed by Nyah. Our wonderful day continued with the kids playing nice enough together on the kitchen floor, I was able to start dinner.
Wow, what a day. These days are few and far between, but when they happen I try to hold on to how well things turned out. I remind myself that plans change, schedules are flexible and the laundry and house cleaning can wait for another time.
Cheers for now,
Aaron
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